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Same Sex interactions are important for bonobos.

Among our two closest phylogenetic relatives, chimpanzees remain by far the more thoroughly-studied and widely-recognized species, known for their high levels of cooperation especially among males, which includes sharing food, supporting each other in aggressive conflicts and defending their territories against other communities. In contrast, insights into the social dynamics of wild bonobos are available from only a small number of long-term field sites, and bonobos are probably best known for their diverse sexual behavior, which together with their proposed peacefulness between communities and co-dominance between the sexes, has led to their nickname as the ‘hippie apes.”

The stereotype of bonobos as hyper-sexual is an over-simplification, but it does capture a fascinating aspect of bonobo social behavior. Bonobos are one of the few species in which all adult members of one sex engage in habitual same-sex sexual interactions that occur at similar or even greater frequencies as opposite-sex interactions. In the wild, all adult females perform same-sex genital contacts, known as genito-genital rubbing (or GG-rubbing) on a regular basis with many other femalesin their community. In contrast, male bonobos rarely engage in same-sex sexual behavior. There are several theories to explain the function of same-sex sexual behavior in bonobos, including as a way to reduce social tension, prevent aggression or form social bonds. However, none of these theories can explain why such behavior occurs so frequently only among females.

To clarify why same-sex sexual behavior is so important specifically for female bonobos, we collected behavioral and hormonal data for over a year from all adult members of a habituated bonobo community at the long-term LuiKotale field site in the Democratic Republic of Congo. In addition to our focus on sexual interactions, we identified preferred partners for other social activities such as giving support in conflicts. We also collected urine to measure the hormone oxytocin, which is released in the body in other species after friendly social interactions, including sex and helps to promote cooperation.

We found that in competitive situations, females preferred to have sex with other females rather than with males. After sex, females often remained closer to each other than did mixed sex pairs, and females had measurable increases in urinary oxytocin following sex with females, but not following sex with males. Among same-sex and opposite-sex pairs, individuals who had more sex also supported each other more often in conflicts, but the majority of these coalitions were formed among females. “It may be that a greater motivation for cooperation among females, mediated physiologically by oxytocin, is the key to understanding how females attain high dominance ranks in bonobo society,” explained co-lead author Martin Surbeck, a researcher at the Max Planck Institute for Evolutionary Anthropology and Harvard University.

For humans as well, alliances between members of the same sex provide many benefits, including mutual social support and sharing of resources. There is also historical and cross-cultural evidence that such alliances are often reinforced through sexual interactions. “While it is important to not equate human homosexuality with same-sex sexual behavior in animals,” cautions co-lead author Liza Moscovice, a researcher at the Leibniz Institute for Farm Animal Biology, “our study suggests that in both humans and a close phylogenetic relative, the evolution of same-sex sexual behavior may have provided new pathways to promote high levels of cooperation.”

More information: Liza R. Moscovice et al, The cooperative sex: Sexual interactions among female bonobos are linked to increases in oxytocin, proximity and coalitions, Hormones and Behavior (2019).  DOI: 10.1016/j.yhbeh.2019.104581

Journal information: Hormones and Behavior

Provided by Max Planck Society

Thanks Jason. That was really interesting. I wonder if you have any information about why they do it. What’s there motivation? Is it to build stronger social bonds or maybe that is a secondary consequence, maybe there initial motivation is sexual gratification. Forgive me for saying it but that would be my first port of call judging by what we know about human behaviour?

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Rob Lindsey-Clark because Bonobo society is a matriarch, the females need to maintain a sisterhood. Because they are more sexually active with one another over the males, levels of oxytocin (The bonding hormone) are higher among females, this makes them favour females and will protect one another over a challenging male. Males have plenty of sex but don’t form allegiances with other males. This is because female mothers keep their male offspring very close.(to avoid a patriarch uprising) Also because bonobos don’t pair bond, there is no father/son dynamic, unlike all another primate. In our culture, Males want to replicate themselves and avoid emasculating boys by avoiding very strong mother son relationships. Hope that helps.

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Like humans, Bonobos use their eyes to communicate

Eye-opening results

The research team compared the darkness of the sclerae contrasted with irises of over 150 humans, bonobos and chimpanzees. The researchers found that bonobos, like humans, have paler sclerae and darker irises. Chimpanzees were found to have a different pattern — with very dark sclerae, and paler irises. Both of these colour patterns show the same type of contrast seen in human eyes, and could help other apes find out where they are looking.

“Humans are unique in many ways, as no other animal can communicate with similar intricate language or build tools of such complexity. Gaze following is an important component of many behaviours that are thought to be characteristically human, so our findings suggest that apes might also engage in these behaviours,” said Mr Perea-García.

Doctoral student Mr Juan O. Perea-García (front) and Associate Professor Antónia Monteiro (back) from NUS Biological Sciences suggest that apes may follow each other’s gaze like humans

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n able to say, “Look over there!”. However, a look in the direction of the predator might be sufficient, as long as it was possible to follow the direction of their gaze.

Apart from helping us understand how our ancestors communicated, this study suggests some interesting new research directions. These include questions pertaining to why human beings and bonobos evolve in a similar way, despite bonobos being more closely related to chimpanzees.


Doctoral student Mr Juan O. Perea-García (front) and Associate Professor Antónia Monteiro (back) from NUS Biological Sciences suggest that apes may follow each other’s gaze like humans

Furthering our ancestral understanding

Before humans had language, our ancestors might have used the gaze of those around them to help communicate dangers or other useful information. They might not have been able to say, “Look over there!”. However, a look in the direction of the predator might be sufficient, as long as it was possible to follow the direction of their gaze.

Apart from helping us understand how our ancestors communicated, this study suggests some interesting new research directions. These include questions pertaining to why human beings and bonobos evolve in a similar way, despite bonobos being more closely related to chimpanzees.

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This is very exciting research and will go towards developing house sign language workshop. Allowing participants to engage in direction gazing and raising their awareness of this skill that is probably unknown to them could harness new abilities .It is encouraging to know that researchers are finding even more behaviours and evolutionary similarities.

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Queer spirit, Squeal of consent. Amazing!

“IT WAS LIKE STEPPING OUT OF THE SOCIAL HUMAN CAGE”.

People are telling one another about us. We are wanting to develop modules now we have enough workshops.

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Beginning to find the words for The Bonobo Experience

The Bonobo Experience offers a welcome distraction to the rigid and sometimes harsh world of the human. Being in a Bonobo tribe opens us up to a shared experience of togetherness and help us understand our loneliness and how to reduce it.

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This was an experiment as to wether people would include insects into there diet for the course of a retreat. I was plesently surprised by how comfortable people were about eating them. We shall include this as part of the bonobo experience retreats.

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The Squeal of consent debrief

The wheel of consent is a diagram that has been created by the sexologist and intimacy coach Betty Martin. In a nutshell, the diagram is a tool that can be used by two or more people before engaging and conscious touch and intimacy. We have made our bonobo version of the wheel of consent which does not use words but sounds, hand signals and other playful and primal methods. Our goal is to help you develop other ways of consensually communicating and also to understand and read each other’s body language.

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Queer Spirit Bonobo Massage workshop debrief

Bonobo bodywork style

This workshop is an opportunity to connect to your inner primal self and connect with your community the space will be held for you to experience being reborn as a bonobo and hang out with your fellow tribe. We will explore the beginnings of language through facial expressions hand signals and body language there will be the opportunity to massage using unconventional methods. Then we will move into a group space cultivating belonging and connection. This will be followed by an unable experience play party free-flowing sensuality and delight, a space for spontaneous and ritualistic acts of love and loss.

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Bonobo Massage Queer Spirit 2019

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Men in Touch workshop debrief

MEN WHERE TIMID TO START

GOT OVER SEXUAL

WE MANAGED TO DIVERT THIS WITH PREDATOR

MAIN ORGANISER ASKED TO SLOW IT DOWN SO IT DIDN’T GET TO SEXY